DEAR ZZINA POWER; I READ an article in a woman’s magazine about a girl waking up feeling sore with flashbacks to somebody being on top of her – and I realized the same thing has happened to me.

This woman pressed charges for rape and I don’t know whether I should do the same.

I got drunk at a house party. I’m 19 and just finished my first year in university.

There’s a guy on my course who is always sniffing around me but I’m not interested. I’ve told him so.

I woke up after a party and felt so uncomfortable down below. I couldn’t think what had happened.

Then I remembered that creep lying on top of me.

I’m in shock. I think I’ve been raped like that other woman.

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ZZINA POWER SAYS: I am so sorry to hear of your ordeal.

You do need some urgent help over this from a qualified counselor with whom you can discuss your feelings and what options are open to you.

Contact Rape Crisis for help . You can email instead or there is a web chat service.

If you prefer, you can contact the police, who should assign a specialist officer to help.