There are several scenarios when a guy asks a girl out and then she replies him by saying “I will think about it”. I know many guys reading this article have received that reply once or twice from someone’s daughter.
The question that many of us now ask is that what does it mean when a babe tells a dude this, what is the meaning of “I will think about it?”
One thing I have observed is that, some guys are immediately struck by goosebumps, thinking that the babe is not interested. Many cowards take that reply for a NO. However the brave ones translate it as signal or hope for them to prove themselves right and win the girl’s heart.
Well, I’ve made some research and I got to find out what this kind of reply actually mean. The first thing to take note of is the tone and the body language. This may vary from one person to another.
Most babes who says YES directly are often summarized as loose, cheap or Sures! And this is one of the reasons why many of these babes play hard to get- ‘I will think about it’ saves them from embarrassment. She might actually be on the same page with you and your bonk plan but just quaking to say it.
Also, it might be that she doesn’t want you to feel hurt or feel down and rejected. So, instead of saying NO directly, she uses the common phrase tactfully to friend-zone you .
However fear not if you are friend-zoned by a prey because now days friends also share the cake. Carry on and don’t be discouraged because when you keep around and stick your eyes on the Sumbie, you might smash it!
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Enock Mugabi aka iWitness is a Journalist, Seasoned Writer and Music Analyst with a passion for sports.
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